Can I make this as a sheet cake?
Yes. Bake in a 9 x 13-inch pan at 350°F for about 30 to 38 minutes, depending on your pan (glass and dark metal can behave differently). Start checking early and pull it when the center springs back and a toothpick comes out with a few moist crumbs. Frost right in the pan for maximum birthday efficiency.
Can I make cupcakes instead?
Also yes. Fill liners about 2/3 full and bake at 350°F for 16 to 20 minutes. This recipe makes about 22 to 24 standard cupcakes (depending on how generous you are with the scoop).
What if I do not have buttermilk?
Make a quick substitute: add 1 tablespoon lemon juice or white vinegar to a measuring cup, then add milk to reach 1 cup. Stir and let stand 5 minutes. It will not be identical, but it works well here.
Why did my cake sink in the middle?
Usually one of three culprits: the cake was underbaked, the oven door was opened too early, or the leaveners were old. Bake until the center springs back and a toothpick comes out with a few moist crumbs, not wet batter.
How do I get flat layers without trimming?
Use cake strips if you have them, and make sure your oven is fully preheated. Also, do not overmix once the liquids go in. Overmixing can create a domed, tougher cake.
Can I reduce the sugar?
In the cake itself, small reductions can change texture. For the buttercream, you can reduce by 1/2 cup powdered sugar and add a pinch more salt and vanilla, but it will be a bit softer.
Can I make it ahead?
Yes, and future-you will be smug about it. Bake the layers, cool completely, wrap tightly, and refrigerate up to 2 days or freeze up to 2 months. Thaw (if frozen), then frost the day you serve for the freshest texture.