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Elegant Hot Toddy

A creamy, spiced hot toddy with vanilla, citrus, and a frothy finish. Cozy enough for sweatpants, fancy enough for a glass you actually hand wash.

Author By Matt Campbell
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A creamy hot toddy in a clear glass mug topped with grated nutmeg and a cinnamon stick on a wooden table

Hot toddies have always been the drink equivalent of a warm blanket, but sometimes you want the blanket to be cashmere. This Elegant Hot Toddy is my cozy upgrade (aka my Hot Tottie): bourbon or brandy, honey, lemon, and gentle spice, plus a little cream and vanilla to make it silky and comforting.

It tastes like a winter evening that finally calmed down. The citrus keeps it bright, the honey rounds everything out, and the creamy finish makes each sip feel like dessert, without tipping into milkshake territory. If you can stir, steep, and taste as you go, you can absolutely make this.

A small saucepan of steaming spiced tea with cinnamon and cloves floating on the surface

Why It Works

  • Cozy, not cloying: lemon and black tea keep the drink lively so the cream does not feel heavy.
  • Real depth fast: a quick steep with cinnamon and cloves builds that simmered-all-evening flavor in minutes.
  • Creamy texture without curdling drama: we let the base cool slightly and add cream at the end, plus a simple technique to keep everything smooth.
  • Easy to scale: make one mug for a quiet night or a small batch for friends.

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Storage Tips

This drink is best fresh, but you can prep smart so it still feels special.

Option 1: Store the spiced tea base (recommended)

  • Make the tea, honey, lemon, and spices portion only. Cool, then refrigerate in a sealed jar for up to 3 days.
  • Reheat gently on the stove or in the microwave until steaming (do not boil). Add the spirit and cream right before serving.

Option 2: Leftover finished drink

  • If it is already mixed with cream, store refrigerated up to 24 hours.
  • Reheat low and slow and never boil. A hard boil can split the dairy, and it will also cook off alcohol fast, which changes the flavor.
  • Whisk or shake in a jar to bring the texture back.

Do not freeze. Dairy and citrus get weird, and not in a fun science experiment way.

Common Questions

Is a Hot Tottie the same as a hot toddy?

It is a hot toddy at heart. “Hot toddy” is the classic name, and Hot Tottie is just my nickname for this creamy, vanilla-kissed variation. Same cozy DNA (honey and lemon), just wearing a nicer coat.

What alcohol works best?

Bourbon gives a caramel warmth. Brandy makes it softer and fruitier. Dark rum is also great if you want a richer molasses vibe. Use what you like and what you will actually keep on your shelf.

How do I keep the cream from curdling?

Three rules: do not boil once lemon is in the mix, temper the cream, and use fresh dairy. Older cream curdles faster in acidic drinks. Also, higher fat is your friend here, so fresh heavy cream is the most stable option. If you use half-and-half for a lighter drink, keep the heat extra gentle and give the tea base a minute or two to calm down before adding it.

Can I make it dairy-free?

Yes. Swap heavy cream for coconut cream (richest) or oat creamer (milder). Keep the heat gentle and whisk well.

Can I make it non-alcoholic?

Absolutely. Skip the spirit and add a small splash of vanilla plus a little extra honey. For complexity, add a strip of orange peel to the steep or a splash of warm apple cider. If you keep NA bitters around, a dash is also great.

What tea should I use?

Black tea is classic. Earl Grey is beautiful here too because bergamot plays nicely with vanilla and lemon. Avoid very floral teas if you want a more traditional cozy profile.

I started making this on nights when I wanted a hot toddy but also wanted something that felt a little more like a treat. You know the mood: you are tired, the sink is judging you, and you still want a moment that feels intentional. The first time I added a splash of cream, I thought, this is either going to be brilliant or I am about to ruin perfectly good bourbon. Turns out it was brilliant. Now it is my go-to “come over, I have blankets” drink, and I always keep nutmeg around just for that dramatic little finishing touch.