Recipe

Homestyle Pasta Carbonara

Silky, cozy carbonara with crisp bacon, plenty of Parmesan, and a glossy egg sauce that clings to every strand. No cream needed.

By Matt Campbell

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4.8/5

A bowl of spaghetti carbonara with crispy bacon, black pepper, and grated Parmesan on top, shot in warm natural light on a wooden table

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Carbonara is one of those recipes that feels fancy, tastes like a hug, and still comes together on a random Tuesday. You get crisp-edged bacon, al dente pasta, and a sauce that looks creamy because of eggs, cheese, and starchy pasta water doing the most. No cream, no drama, just a few smart moves and a lot of pepper.

This is my homestyle version for Mom’s Best Recipes: approachable ingredients, clear steps, and little rescue tricks built in. If you have ever scrambled your sauce and sworn off carbonara forever, stay with me. We are going to keep the heat gentle, keep the pasta water close, and taste as we go because that is literally the job.

A close-up photo of eggs whisked with grated Parmesan and black pepper in a mixing bowl next to a pot of pasta

Why It Works

Silky sauce without cream: Eggs and Parmesan melt into a glossy coating when the pasta is hot and the pan is off the burner.
Big flavor, small ingredient list: Bacon (or pancetta), eggs, cheese, pepper, pasta. That is the core.
Crisp, savory bites in every forkful: Rendering the bacon slowly gives you crunchy bits plus flavorful fat for the sauce base.
Flexible and forgiving: Includes timing cues and fixes if the sauce looks too thick, too thin, or starts to tighten up.

Pairs Well With

Buttery Garlic Bread
Simple Lemon Green Salad
Crispy Roasted Broccoli
Garlicky Green Beans

Storage Tips

Carbonara is best right after it is made, when the sauce is glossy and loose. That said, leftovers still hit the spot if you reheat them gently.

Refrigerate

Store in an airtight container for up to 3 days.

Reheat (best method)

Add pasta to a skillet over low heat with a splash of water.
Toss constantly until warmed through and loosened. Turn heat off as soon as it is hot.
Finish with extra Parmesan and black pepper.

Microwave (works, but be gentle)

Microwave in 20 to 30 second bursts, stirring between, with a teaspoon or two of water added first.

Freezing

I do not recommend freezing carbonara. The egg and cheese sauce can turn grainy once thawed.

Common Questions

Do I really not need cream?

You do not. Classic carbonara gets its creamy texture from eggs + cheese + pasta water. Cream can make it heavier and can mute the peppery punch.

How do I keep the eggs from scrambling?

Two keys: turn the heat off before you add the egg and cheese mixture, and toss constantly while adding hot pasta water a splash at a time. The residual heat from the pasta is enough.

What pasta shape is best for carbonara?

Spaghetti is the classic, but bucatini, linguine, or fettuccine work great. Short shapes like rigatoni also work, just make sure you save enough pasta water so the sauce coats every ridge.

Can I use bacon instead of pancetta or guanciale?

Yes. Bacon is the most accessible option and it tastes fantastic. If your bacon is very smoky, keep the pepper bold and consider a little extra Parmesan for balance.

Is it safe to eat carbonara with eggs?

The eggs are gently cooked by the heat of the pasta and hot pan. If you are serving someone who is pregnant, immunocompromised, or very cautious, use pasteurized eggs for extra peace of mind.

My sauce looks thick and clumpy. Can I fix it?

Yes. Pull the pan off the heat and add hot pasta water 1 tablespoon at a time while tossing. It usually smooths out quickly. If it already scrambled, see the tip in the instructions to turn it into a rustic, still-delicious “carbonara scramble” moment.

Do I need to add extra salt?

Usually not. Between the bacon and Parmesan, carbonara is naturally salty. Season the pasta water moderately, then taste at the end and only add salt if it truly needs it.

Matt Campbell

I have always had a huge passion for the culinary arts, people, working as a team, and so on. I wanted to pursue my love for cooking initially at Virginia Commonwealth University with a culinary arts degree; however, I instead decided to apply myself and acquire more practical skills. My end goal is to eventually open my own restaurant or similar establishment.

Kitchen Essentials

Large pot for boiling pasta
Large skillet or sauté pan
Mixing bowl
Whisk or fork
Tongs (or a spider) for tossing pasta
Microplane or grater for Parmesan
Measuring cup for pasta water

The first time I made carbonara, I treated it like an alfredo situation and left the heat blasting like I was trying to win a race. The sauce scrambled, I panicked, and I ate it anyway standing at the stove because quitting was not an option. What I learned is the whole recipe is basically a trust fall with pasta water. Once you get the timing, carbonara becomes that friend who shows up in sweatpants with snacks, comforting, reliable, and somehow still impressive.

Homestyle Pasta Carbonara

(4.8/5 Reviews)

Prep Time 10 minutes

Cook Time 15 minutes

Total Time 25 minutes

Servings 4

Ingredients

12 oz spaghetti (or bucatini)
6 oz bacon, cut into small pieces (or pancetta)
2 large whole eggs
2 large egg yolks
1 cup finely grated Parmesan cheese, plus more for serving
1 tsp freshly ground black pepper, plus more to taste
Salt for pasta water (go easy since bacon and cheese are salty)
1 small garlic clove, lightly smashed (optional, for infusing the fat)
2 to 3 tbsp chopped parsley (optional, for a fresh finish)

Optional add-ins (still homestyle, still great): a pinch of red pepper flakes, a squeeze of lemon at the end, or a handful of peas stirred in with the pasta for a kid-friendly pop of sweetness.

Instructions

Get your pasta water going. Bring a large pot of water to a boil. Salt it moderately (think pleasantly seasoned, not ocean-level), since the bacon and Parmesan bring plenty of salt and the pasta water will end up in the sauce. Add the pasta and cook until al dente according to the package.
Whisk the sauce base. In a mixing bowl, whisk together the whole eggs, egg yolks, Parmesan, and black pepper. You want a thick, paste-like mixture. Set it near the stove so it is ready when the pasta is hot.
Cook the bacon. While the pasta boils, add bacon to a large skillet over medium heat. Cook, stirring occasionally, until the fat renders and the bacon is crisp, 8 to 10 minutes. If using the optional smashed garlic, add it for the last 1 to 2 minutes, then remove it.
Save pasta water like it is liquid gold. Before draining, scoop out 1 1/2 cups hot pasta water. Then drain the pasta.
Turn off the heat. This is the make-or-break moment. Remove the skillet from the burner or turn the heat fully off. Add the hot pasta to the skillet with the bacon and toss until coated in the bacon fat.
Add the egg and cheese mixture. Pour the egg mixture over the pasta and toss constantly with tongs for 30 to 60 seconds. The sauce will look a little thick at first.
Loosen with pasta water (heat stays off). Keep the skillet off the heat while you do this. Add hot pasta water a splash at a time, tossing after each splash, until the sauce turns glossy and coats the pasta. Most batches need about 1/3 to 3/4 cup, depending on cheese and heat.
Taste and finish. Adjust with more pepper and Parmesan. Taste first, then add a pinch of salt only if it truly needs it (often it will not). Add parsley if using. Serve immediately, preferably in warm bowls.

Quick rescue tips

Too thick? Add more hot pasta water and toss (off heat). The sauce should look shiny and fluid, not dry.
Too thin? Toss for another 30 seconds off heat. If needed, add a spoonful more Parmesan.
Eggs started to scramble? Pull the pan off heat immediately (or keep it off) and add a splash of pasta water while tossing. If it is already fully scrambled, call it a “breakfast carbonara” and top with extra cheese and pepper. It is not traditional, but it is still dinner.

A photo of spaghetti being tossed in a skillet with crispy bacon and glossy carbonara sauce

Nutrition information is estimated.

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