What kind of liver should I buy?
Calf liver is usually the most mild and tender. Beef liver is stronger tasting and can be a bit firmer. Pork liver is also common and tends to be milder than beef. If you are new to liver, start with calf liver if you can find it.
Do I have to soak liver in milk?
No, but many cooks find it helps mellow the flavor and improves the texture, especially with beef liver. If you do not want to use milk, you can soak in buttermilk (some people find the slight acidity helps) or even cold salted water for 20 to 30 minutes.
Should I trim anything off first?
If your liver has a thin membrane or any obvious tough connective bits, trim them off before soaking or cooking. That little bit of cleanup pays off in tenderness.
How do I know when liver is done?
Liver cooks fast. You are looking for browned outside and still a little pink in the center, unless you prefer it more done. If you use a thermometer, follow your preferred food-safety guidance and comfort level. Many cooks pull it around 145°F for a slight blush, then rest a couple minutes, but going higher will firm it up quickly.
Why is my liver tough?
Almost always overcooking, slicing too thick, or leaving membrane on. Keep slices around 1/4 to 1/3 inch, get the skillet hot, and sear quickly. Also, do not crowd the pan.
Can I make this without flour?
Yes. You will lose a little crust and the gravy will be thinner, but it still tastes great. For gluten-free, use a 1:1 gluten-free flour blend or cornstarch (use less and keep the sear quick).