Can I use natural peanut butter?
You can, but it is a little unpredictable. Natural peanut butter can separate and make the frosting look greasy or feel loose. If you use it, make sure it is very well stirred. Start by adding 1 to 2 tablespoons powdered sugar, then adjust from there (you may need a bit more). If it still feels soft, chill the frosting for 10 to 15 minutes and rewhip. For the most consistent results, use regular creamy peanut butter.
How do I make it less sweet?
Two easy moves: add a pinch more kosher salt (go slow), and swap in a little cream cheese for tang. Try 2 to 4 tablespoons cream cheese in place of the same amount of butter (or beat it in as an add-on). Heads up: cream cheese can loosen the frosting, so you may want to use less milk or add extra powdered sugar until it is thick enough to hold swirls.
Why is my frosting grainy?
Usually it is powdered sugar that did not fully dissolve. Beat it on medium for 2 to 3 more minutes, and make sure your butter is properly softened. (Softened means it dents when pressed, not shiny or melty.) Sifting the powdered sugar also helps.
Why is it runny?
Either the butter is too warm or you added too much liquid. Add powdered sugar 1/4 cup at a time until thick, then chill for 10 to 15 minutes and rewhip. Next time, start with butter that is soft but not greasy or melting.
How much frosting does this make?
About 2 1/2 cups. That is typically enough for 12 cupcakes with a generous swirl, a 9 x 13-inch sheet cake, or a lightly frosted two-layer 8-inch cake. If you love a thick, bakery-style coat, you may want to scale up by 1.5x.
Can I make it chocolate peanut butter frosting?
Yes. Beat in 1/3 cup unsweetened cocoa powder. You will likely need an extra 1 to 3 tablespoons milk to keep it smooth. Note: cocoa deepens the chocolate vibe and can slightly mute the peanut butter flavor, so add a tiny pinch more salt or a drizzle of honey if you want the peanut to pop.
Any allergy notes or substitutions?
This frosting contains peanuts and dairy. For a peanut-free option, try creamy sunflower seed butter (expect a slightly earthier flavor). Almond butter can work too, but it is often softer, so you may need extra powdered sugar and a quick chill for clean piping.